Saturday, April 18, 2009
The Super Woman
In the suburbs of Kolkata is a small town called Charghat and ten miles from this small town is a small village called Chunsura.
This village is not the native land of any national celebrity nor has it produced any renowned political leader in the past years. It is non-extraordinary in every aspect one can think of. In this ordinary village lived this extraordinary woman whose name was Bhaswati.
Why was she extraordinary , we will get to kno in the due course of this post……
Bhaswati was an ordinary girl who was born in a poor farmer’s family. She had 3 younger sisters. When she was 10, her father was taken away as a victim of cholera, further pushing the family into dungeons of poverty. When she was eleven , she had to quit school to help her mother in housework and to look after her sisters when her mother was away at work .
Her mother used to work as a domestic help in the Zamindar’s household. By the time Bhaswati entered her teenage , she grew up into a skinny yet beautiful dusky village damsel. She joined her mother in her work with the hope to double her family’s income. But destiny had some other plans for her.
On the first day of her job, she was spotted by the Zamindar’s lecherous elder son. He started to tail her around th ehouse and one fine afternoon hell broke upon her when she was working alone in a room. The beast left no stone unturned in deflowering her feminity and pillaged her till she was only half alive as a shattered and trampled flower.
When the Zamindar came to know of this, Bhaswati was sent home with her mother with a sum of hundred rupees –as damage concession.
Vy God’s grace, she was successfully nursed back to normal health by her siblings. But after 2 months of this incident, her mother discovered Bhaswati’s pregnancy. When the Zamindar was informed about this, as things happen in our country , the Zamindar proposed Bhaswati’s marriage to his son. The son who had married three times before this, complied to his father’s request as he knew that the girl won’t last longer than six months under his customary tortuous physical activities and physical abuses.
Bhaswati’s mother, who was no more than an innocent poor lady, was more than flattered by this proposal as there was nothing she could do to save her family’s name from social abuses. Bhaswati on the other hand surprised everyone by straightway refusing to the marriage proposal.
On this refusal, she was not only taunted by her own mother but also by the community. The so-called NGO’s who were setting up Bhaswati as their brand-ambassadress for their campaign of violence against women, dumped her saying that she must have seduced the Zamindar’s innocent son into the sexual act.
Bhaswati’s life was further made difficult by the second decision she took. When she refused to marry the Zamindar’s son , the abortion of her child was demanded by the village Panchayat. When she refused to oblige, she was made the victim of a terrible outrage amongst village elders. Bhaswati, when she was in the 5th month of her pregnancy was bitten brutally by the village women folks saying that she is the bearer of sin and then kicked out of the village premises by the village elders.
Uncertain as to what to do next and where to go, she took refuge in a shanty that belonged to a leper. There also, in the darkness of night she was hunted down by the Zamindar’s son who came along with a group of goons and further defaced her by throwing acid on her bare skin.
Tolerating the acute pain and extreme mental agony, Bhaswati reacted in a completely unexpected manner. Any other woman in her situation would have decided of ending her life and hence the pain , but Bhaswati decided the contrary. Her willingness to give birth to the baby in her womb turned into a strong determination . Bearing the extreme pan she walked bare-footed for the next 25 kilometers where she was spotted by a mobile medical rescue team. She was taken to a hospital in the nearby town where she gave birth to a baby girl. Because of the physical tortures inflicted upon her, the baby was born with dysfunctional limbs.
Through fifteen long years, Bhaswati worked at different places, first as a rag picker, then as a domestic help, then as a baby sitter and many other odd jobs. Since she had a little formal education, she used to help people fill money order forms and savings forms outside a post office which used to fetch her a petty income. Through various means she and by tolerating her own hunger and thirst she saved enough so that her own daughter can go to school. She not only educated her daughter but also saw to it that she attend college.
Today Bhaswati is no more, as the hunger and thirst that she was tolerating finally gave into tuberculosis. Her daughter is a schoolteacher in the same village from where her mother was kicked out. She is the most respected person in the same village which had once labeled her mother as a sinner. This is an apt answer from an extraordinary woman to our society’s irrelevant norms which have led to many girl’s death.
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13 comments:
Indeed inspiring one. Why dont you write this to some Magazine or a newspaper editorial column.
This act of courage and determination will elevate the minds of the women.
good post... :) post more like this...
Your posts always touches the heart..Where there is a will there is always a way.
well compiled and expressed...
This is an eye-opener for all. We say India is developing and by 2020 it would be super-power, but incidents like this really force us to re-think if We really are progressing??
Women, the bearer of birth being treated like this is a shame to the society. Wake up Indians!!!
Great research work indeed, the way you have penned it was fantastic, it aroused interest in me and kept me reading which is a good quality you have and I appreciate it..
And the 'vy' instead of 'by' shows that you are a typical bengali, I am afraid if you are not!!
good work, keep shining!! :)
Hi A very moving narration.
Liked your blog very much. keep it up
@Prashant
Thnx Bunny, for the adivice but the thing is if i strt writing for a magazine-it might get bankrupt for the want of posts since i post blogs very infrequently.
@nidhin
thnx nidhin for the encouraging comment.
@Ankit
Thnx buddy-its bcoz of ur previous comments of wanting to read more of my blogs that urged me to post blogs more frequently.
@Sangeet
Hey sangeet u kno wat-everything has a darker side to it-so u c, as India is progressing, the people here have forgotten to preserve nd protect certain basic things-nd women dignity is 1 of em especially in rural areas.So its really upon us to give dese ppl a wake up call.
@erebus
Sorry buddy-for d spellling mistakes-i wrote dis in a hurry hence such mistakes, i will re-read the post wen i ve time nd remove the "vy" nd ohtr such things.nd yes-m a bengali :)
@Sudhir
Thnx sudhir for ur motivating comment :)
Very well written Sormita...i really feel sad reading this that all this happened in our country...wonder why!!! The society needs to come up and help those who are still suffering from all these types of torture.
great work sormita !!!
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Man.. that is such a disturbing post.. now this is only part of the reality that we know.. thre are thousands of stories like these that dont become public.. kudos to her determination...
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